Change is scary when
it leaves me behind and makes me wonder
if something is wrong with the way things were-or even worse
if there is something wrong with
me.
Change is beautiful when
it invites me into a fresh gust of wind and
pulls me from a world that is stagnant into a land of
endless possibilities and
dreams.
Change was inevitable when
I took my first breath and found that
growing up means nothing stays the same;
this breaks my heart but brings me
hope.
Change is proof of life
like when a seedling pushes through the ground to
tell the world it can grow
because it has
courage.
Your dad lived YOLO before you did and he’s set himself adrift in the ocean to prove it. In the uncharted waters of adventure and death-dodging (somewhere in between the bikini-bramuda triangle and PBR sea), he was the Christopher Columbus of discovering new ways of being awesomer. He lived each day like it was a person challenge to experience everything people only dare to dream. Authors can’t fabricate better stories than the ones he’s survived. Ridiculously intelligent doctors, super-scientists and psychologists gave him a life expectancy of yesterday, but not even the grim reaper can stop the force of a man who lived like a human hurricane.
So hipsters, next time you’re yelling YOLO before you do something that is a huge mistake because you want to justify your stupidity, remember this…
You’re dad was too busy killing it back in the day and didn’t have time to invent stupid sayings.
P.S. Say YOLO in front of your dad and see if he doesn’t look at you like you’re an idiot.
Grace
The woods is shining this morning.
Red, gold and green, the leaves
lie on the ground, or fall,
or hang full of light in the air still.
Perfect in its rise and in its fall, it takes
the place is has been coming to forever.
It has not hastened here, or lagged.
See how surely it has sought itself,
it’s roots passing lordly through the earth.
See how without confusion it is
all that it is, and how flawless
its grace is. Running or walking, the way
is the same. Be still. Be still.
“He moves your bones, and the way is clear”
-Wendell Berry
